One of the men in the show is cruel to his wife – he shouts, insults her, and even hits her. This kind of behaviour is never okay. Let’s break down domestic violence in a simple way so we can all understand and do better.

1. Domestic Violence Is Not Just Physical
Many people think domestic violence is only about hitting. But it can also be emotional (insults, threats), financial (controlling all the money), or psychological (making someone feel useless or scared). Abuse can come in many forms – and all of them hurt.

2. Love Should Never Hurt
In a healthy relationship, partners support and protect each other. If someone says they love you but keeps hurting you physically or emotionally, that’s not love – it’s control and manipulation.

3. It’s Not the Victim’s Fault
Sometimes, people ask, “Why doesn’t she just leave?” But it's never that simple. Victims of abuse often stay because of fear, children, money issues, or emotional attachment. Let’s stop blaming victims and start supporting them instead.

4. Abusers Often Pretend to Change
After a violent incident, the abuser might apologise, cry, or promise to change – but then it happens again. This cycle is dangerous. Real change takes time, effort, and professional help.

5. Help Is Available
If you or someone you know is facing domestic violence, please speak up. Talk to a trusted friend, a counselor, or call a helpline. No one deserves to live in fear.

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